Next came the Plastic Surgeon, Dr. Jay Agarwal, and his whole entourage of student doctors. He discussed all of the possible options for breast reconstruction. Vickie, "my" breast health nurse at Huntsman, had already shown me photos of patients who had had no reconstruction done, as well as results from other types of reconstruction. I must admit that the cases where no reconstruction was done looked so strange with a breast on one side, and nothing on the other. Not very appealing! She then explained there is another method where they take skin & fat from the belly to build a new breast. That one didn't appeal to me at all. I know, you get a tummy tuck out of the deal, but seeing the incision from hip bone to hip bone didn't get me excited a bit! Then there's the procedure where they take some muscle and skin from your back, below the shoulder blade, swing it around under the arm & attach it to the chest so blood vessels get going - then later build a breast out of that - are you kidding? That one fell off my list immediately. Then the one they call the more "simple" reconstruction involves putting an expander under the muscle & skin after the masectomy. Then saline is injected into the expander every few weeks to stretch the muscle & skin, in preparation for the final reconstruction surgery where the expander is removed, and an implant is put in. ( I guess for those girls wanting the DD look, it's going to take a lot of saline injections!)
Wow. I hated all of the options. Such crummy choices all the way around. I was pretty well debating between no reconstruction, or the expander/implant method. I had talked to a number of people who told me that although the expander/implant route stinks, after it's all said & done, I'd probably be glad I did it. I sure hope so, cause after talking to Dr. Agarwal I decided I'd go that route. Later that day I had to go have an MRI to look for any other little tumors that might be kicking around, particularly in the other breast (double mastectomy, anyone?). Anyone who has had an MRI knows that's kind of an interesting experience. I wasn't finished with that until almost 7 pm. Another very long day!
Hey there ~ So sorry I didn't have any idea about this. I saw on Chase's facebook yesterday a note and I came to research a bit. OK you can do this! So wish you didn't have to go through it but if anyone can do it you can! I sure miss our visits. Our life has limited me on keeping in touch more but hopefully I'll be able to keep pace with your blog. There will be many days of tears so if you ever just need to visit please call me. I'll post my phone number in your FB inbox. Each day that I have w/Cy is such a gift and this experience has taken us both to such a different level of love and knowledge. Through this trial you too will gain more than you can ever imagine. Thank goodness you have an amazing family and friends that so love you. Keep them close and lean on them whenever you can! Much Love ~ SandyKay
ReplyDeleteLove you Lalove! Your attitude is wonderful and with all of the hard times...you are such an example to me. I think I am looking at life in a whole new way. Our prayers are with you.
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